29 August 2010

Tea, Control and a TARDIS

This week has been pretty damn awesome. 

This is the last weekend before things get really, really hectic, so we're trying to enjoy it. September is going to be crazy busy - BitchBuzz's birthday party, London Fashion Week, Oh My Blog's 1st workshop, preparing to go to Greece - but I'm really looking forward to it. 

The best thing this week, aside from selling 19/25 tickets for Oh My Blog's 1st workshop in four days, was, well this:

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Oh yeaaaah. That's a TARDIS. I visited the BBC Television centre to chat to the fantastic Jamillah Knowles from BBC Outriders, and she showed me this, and a Dalek. YES A DALEK, TOO. 

But, aside from flipping out of the TARDIS and drinking myself into a tea coma, I'm been thinking a lot about control. Control is something that I fancy the pants off of, which is both a good and bad thing. When you're running your own business, control and caring about the details, the fine print, and the direction that your brand is heading in is important. 

Relinquishing control of these things is quite scary. However, even more scary than giving up controlling things you once had control over is giving up trying to control the things you can't. The concept of stopping the insane attempt to control the uncontrollable might sound absurd, but I've personally come to realize that a lot of the Energy Sucks in my life exist because I simply cannot wrap my mind around the concept that there is nothing I can do to change it. 

You cannot control the irrational. You cannot control the illogical. 

Accepting that as much as you'd like to think you can change people's minds by just being better or by doing good, it is impossible. No one likes giving up on things or people, but there comes a time when you really have to accept that you're not giving up or giving in - you're accepting and embracing the situation for what it is: uncontrollable. 

Sure, we try our best to control things. We go through motions that make us feel like we somehow can influence the outcome. Learning to trust the concept of "no matter what I do, ____ will still be this way," is hard. Particularly if you're believe the old saying "if there's a will, there's a way". But, for those uncontrollable situations and those uncontrollable people, any attempts you forgo are simply out of vanity. Never mind being a waste of breath/time/energy/brain cells. 

It can be really disappointing to accept that some things just are, and will remain shitty, awkward, and frustrating. It can be heartbreaking to discover that some people just weren't as "on it" as you thought they were. It can be sickening when you have to accept that even those you love so fiercely are so stuck in their own psychological mud, that there is no amount of tears that you can shed, or words that you can muster that will bring them out from under.

I'm not a religious person (which is why I had to do a little backspace action over the word "god") but this prayer/quote has been in my mind a lot lately:

"Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference."

Personally, I am a little slow when it comes to having the "wisdom" to "know the difference" between the things I can control and the things, people and situations that I cannot, but I endeavour to have as much serenity as I can during the process I am currently undergoing, which is accepting what I cannot change, and what I cannot control. 

 

...And during that process, I will be doing drinking a lot of tea, and eating a lot of baked goods, as I did this week:

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"Fighting the Spanish Armada" teapot at Sacred

 

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08 June 2010

skull candy

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This is a bottle of Crystal Head Vodka, created by comedian Dan Aykroyd.

It's vodka. In a skull-shaped bottle. 

Awesome.

07 June 2010

dinerlicious

It is no secret that I love diner food. Anywhere that serves ketchup in a plastic or glass bottle is fine by me. As long as it's Heinz, and as long as I can have as much as I want.

My favorite diner in the world is Mel's Diner, but in Florida, Steak 'n Shake will have to do. And, it does pretty well. 

However, it doesn't feel right without having a certain special someone to gossip over strawberry milkshakes with.

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Photos © Cate Sevilla

05 May 2010

Retro Americana

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12 July 2008

Sour-what? Sour-who?

Lookie what I found at the grocery store today! Sourdough bread! Sour-what? Sour-who?

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